Strength in us?

Hw do u deal wid d loss of ur loved one, on ur own bday? Hw does tht day ever remain d same? 

Big talk on, they r d ppl who love u, and they wanna see u happy.. They'll hate to see u this way, on ur spl day.. Everything said, heard, done, but how do u deal wid it..?

I know someone's who's been doin it for yrs nw, hats off to their strength, n m one of d ppl who gave them d "big talk", but still.. 

V do things, v don't wanna, smile, laugh, mk an effort, for d ppl v love, even though, inside v r tearing apart.. 

Does tht mean tht wen v r goin through our most diff phases, d person v feel most protective n responsible for, should b put in front of us, cause cm wat may, vll still b smiling for them.. Vll still push fwd for them..