"Bitching..!"

It's funny, d idea of "bitching" abt things n ppl.. U r def ur thoughts n reactions.. Meaning ppl judge u by these things, but this phenomenon of talkin badly abt stuff wid someone, somehw also reflects a lil on d person listening, and their reactions to it.. 

U are finally listening, and somewhere thts why, ur either agreeing, or ur ok wid d logic to d verbal bashing.. 

Unfortunately mostly this ends up happening for d ppl u love, ur family, frnds, etc, because somewhere deep down they r d ones tht u r most vulnerable to and hence most alert wid.. Human tendency to second guess.. 

This lending a ear though, gives a third party d space to butt in n create probs tht don't even exist, but they could do it cause of those doubts in u somewhere.. Ppl cn only get away wid saying things if u let them.. 

Trust d ppl u love, n never let any1, say anything abt them, cause first of all only u hv tht right, and secondly, it's a huge judge of ur own character, whether u listen or not..