"You did this to me, I am def goin to do this to u! ".. How many times have you thought like that? Lots right!
Whether intentionally or unintentionally, someone harms you and somewhere deep down you decide, that if the situation ws reversed, or more like, when it is reversed, you will not let that person live it any easily, if not worse..!
When you suffer, or go through a bad phase, you know exactly how bad it felt, how can you wish something that you didn't like urself, on others? Is the need for revenge so much more than actual feelings?
If someone's being, or been stupid, doesn't mean u hv to do the same, just to teach them a lesson..! If u do, then how r u any different, and then just proves you learnt nothing, but the need for revenge from your bad time/phase/experience..
When someone does good, you very rarely return the favour, so then why for the bad? Plus, do good for someone, and happiness just spreads, in you and in others; similarly do bad, and may b, just may b u might get a momentary satisfaction but after tht, ur not goin to b happy, cause it's something, u didn't like in the first place, or more like you know your wrong..!
And really finally, all tht matters is u b able to live with yourself, the rest follow your lead.. Revenge is sweet, for a minute, but the aftertaste is very very bitter, think about it!
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