grenade!

Was sitting with someone the other day, and they just really needed to vent.  Heard them out, the whole story with all the he said and she said and how just everybody said too much. 

Thinking about it later, we all have problems, everyone Is going through their own shit storm, no one knows about, and beside that we talk, which is good, but we talk to about all the wrong things and to all the wrong people cause it's just simpler. 

Everyone has these few people, you might know a lot of people, but only those select few matter.. something goes amiss there and they hurt you knowingly or unknowingly.  Generally people just go to someone who knows the person, but doesn't really care a damn about them, to vent, but really how is that helping cause the person who you're talking to isn't bothered and is only going to say what you want to hear, and not what you need to. So instead of getting it out of your system, you've just got more garbage added it onto some really stupid thing that wasn't even such a big  deal before this. All of that is bottled in and we get on with everything normally, occasionally opening it and just adding more rubbish to it, cause you're not yet over it..

One day the bottle goes full and like a grenade you go off. The blast radius of this is so huge, all those people you occasionally spoke to, the people who you should've spoken to, the person who everything was about and lastly you get affected. The rest of your life you only spend picking up the pieces and mending broken relationships. 

All of this because, you couldn't be brave enough and say what you wanted to that one person who needed it or should've heard it, but to everyone who didn't need to hear it. 

If someone your close to, hurts you, it's mostly unintentional, talk to them, if not immediately, in a while, because what you say to them, will be actual venting, and maybe there's another side to the story that you needed to hear!