sentiment and suffocation

Sentiment and suffocation. 

You love someone you want the world for them, get everything to their feet, is awesome, making that person feel soo special to that extent is a feat in itself. 

But that sentiment, turned around to not letting that person do anything on their own, is suffocation. Your cutting your hands and theirs, loving someone also means letting them grow and be ok with that. 

Love their growth like it’s your own, not looking at it as your failure. It’s a win. 

And may be somewhere you already know that......