Constant dilemma

Why do v like to complicate our lives soo much..!!? Wat is this constant search for drama..? Why can't we be happy with wat we have? Instead of looking for wat others have or long for somethin that was ours... This constant dilemma.. 

It's more tht way for people in our lives.. People outside of family.. People v get close to.. V fall in love with.. But then if somethin goes wrong.. Those ppl either walk away or r pushed out by us only.. I know it's easier said than done, but in both circumstances why do our lives per say come on a stand still.. 

This constant dilemma of yes and no, affects our lives, cause it doesn't let us focus on anything else.. In this dilemma v also forget, tht our lives out not ours alone.. Family, friends, ppl who actually love us, r also affected.. It's v painful to watch someone u love, wither like tht, throw their lives away cause of one person..

And this is wat v should consider.. Is tht one person, worth hurting all these other ppl..? These r d ppl who didn't walk away, or refuse to b pushed out.. 

These r d ppl v need to smile for, to get a hold on ourselves and our lives for.. Cause in d end all they want is for us to b happy..